People change.
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I’m not talking about the obvious physical characteristics that change about people, but their inner thoughts and feelings, the cognitive abilities that make them sentient. No one is exactly the same their whole lives as no one is immune to the effect of gaining experience and wisdom from life’s experiences. It has been shown time and time again that the assumption that people are static and unchanging is false. People often change in dramatic and unexpected ways.
I have two students this year who have made leaps and bounds in their academic ability, largely because they push themselves much harder this year and generally acting more motivated and energized in class. My colleague at my last school loves to talk about a child who started in 9th grade as one of the least academically able 9th graders and ended up top of his class in Calculus AP by the end of 12th grade.
When I was in public school, I was painfully socially inept and struggled not only to make friends, but even to understand the motivations and social expectations of the people in my life. Now, I’m in an incredibly social profession as a teacher, I’m comfortable presenting to a room full of a hundred people, and I interact with thousands of people in the course of a month. I’ve changed a huge amount.
Not all change is positive growth of course , but we need to recognize that change is not only possible, it is likely. Our educational policies should reflect the ability of people to change.
Is it possible for children in your school to switch tracks? For example, can a child on a less academic path switch to a more academic path and vice versa? Can students choose to switch courses when their needs change? Can they switch what elective courses they take? Do your discipline policies reflect a student who can change, or do they apply penalties using strict criteria which allow for no opportunity for growth on the part of the student? Do you let students know that they are even capable of change?
Most importantly, what opportunities exist in your school to help kids change their own lives?
4Moms1Dream says:
David, we so agree on that life is full of changes and that families and schools should be supporting our youth to learn and grow through each and every change that will come across their path. Though we’d like to add one more question and take it a little deeper than policies, programs, or course directions. We believe one of the question needs to be “will” individual educators be open to doing things differently and finding ways to support individual students, taking into account their individual learning styles and skills – personalized learning.
We’ve seen it many times where the success of a student is connected directly to the educators being able to be open, work with families and to explore ways to help the child achieve, not just ways to make the child fit into the box. The way to closing the gap isn’t going to be by doing the same old things year after year. The world is changing, people are changing, student’s are changing and the questions becomes for us… are we the adults, parents and educators, “willing” to embrace the changes happening and support the kids of today into being the leaders of tomorrow.
April 12, 2011 — 10:19 pm